Awkward girl situation?

[zipperdude]

You're 20 and getting married and you're questioning him about getting involved in emotional drama?

my point was not to rush into a relationship, at least emotionally. Ive dated my fiance since i was 16 im 20 now. 4 years doesnt seemed rushed to me? plus ive known her since i was a child she moved across the street when we were 12.

and as far as a the law states... at least in usa, not sure about every other country due to i live in california, but i always that a minor could have sex with another minor. idk oh well aint a minor any more so no point on me.

and drof nice quote. little graphic i went for the point of gettin in what ya fit in... you took it to the next level with that qoute from dr dre. lmao greate song and great post haha

[JDogg]

You're 20 and getting married and you're questioning him about getting involved in emotional drama?

my point was not to rush into a relationship, at least emotionally. Ive dated my fiance since i was 16 im 20 now. 4 years doesnt seemed rushed to me? plus ive known her since i was a child she moved across the street when we were 12.

and as far as a the law states... at least in usa, not sure about every other country due to i live in california, but i always that a minor could have sex with another minor. idk oh well aint a minor any more so no point on me.

and drof nice quote. little graphic i went for the point of gettin in what ya fit in... you took it to the next level with that qoute from dr dre. lmao greate song and great post haha

Law is the same here, its only against the law if an adult has sex with a minor, obviously.

[Pedsdude]

Law is 16+ in the UK (where jimbo lives).

[zipperdude]

Except for the fact taht if theres a 17 yr old and a 16 yr old. the 17 yr old can be tried as an adult. which is gay in a sense taht if a 19 yr old has sex with a 17 yr old the 17 yrd is looked at as a minor and cant be tried as an adult. usa the laws are extremly fucked up imo and were too soft. death penalty is basicaly nul and void. i feel rapping a minor shourld result in death. and murder should be punishable by death as well. if you can take someone elses life yours should be taken from you. that or your tounge and all your fingers should be cut off and you should be made paralized from waste down. like itl ever happen tho. usa law is made by pussies with soft spots taht feel "oh hes going doing things to show how bad he feels and that it was a mistake, lets let him go." fuckin usa.

[[SoE]_Zaitsev]

I understand what you're saying but if you think it's worse in the USA go check out the prisons in Holland, it's a fucking paradise.

If you're a tramp go kill someone and you land in prison, you're better off since you have TV, internet, food and obviously shelter. I even heared some people have consoles/PCs but I'm not sure about that.

USA law is good. Atleast compared to my country.

[Rezil]

i feel rapping a minor shourld result in death

So does Dr. Dre I believe.

[zipperdude]

hahaha nice catch there.

[Coontang]

Little update on the front: Fell out with her today because her family doesn't know she has a boyfriend and her brother saw us in town today. I was annoyed because Levi's friend had to come with us and I got pissed ff, anyway we kissed and made up and she went home, anyway for some reason we fell out on MSN and it's just so fucking annoying.

I know it sounds awful but sometimes I think that if I never knew what this felt like I wish I never found out. Because it's ripped me apart so much over the last...week? That i've been so sad and felt so bad sometimes.

It's the times when we're alone and I get to say to her just how I feel that I realise why I fight through the harder times, but each time instead of getting stronger we seem to drift away.

I'm just fucked up right now.

[Coontang]

*Looks smug with Drofder*

Told you so.

Look at the reasons there, the reasons are age....you fell out on MSN and the cause was her parents and the fact that she was a child.

That doesn't stop us having good times.

Fuck you KS, I bet you've never experienced even within an INCH of being with someone you care about.

EDIT: is there too young a age to be in love? Im not suggesting I am, I'm just curious.

[Coontang]

Well you bet wrong.
Also what is the point if you end up as you are now, an apparent emotional wreck.

Because I've also had a few times with her which just top any other times I've had, that's why, and apart from the fallings out (which I think is because she needs to realise that she's being immature) we get on great.

[Soviet]

It's a calculated risk. True, if you never fall in love you never have to deal with that level of agony, but at the same time you never feel that level of happiness. If you are willing to take the good at a risk that you may experience the bad then it is by no means a stupid move.

[Azabael]

Sam, if you find it appropriate to use 'I told you so', that's your decision.
But you need to dare to live in the worst parts of your life to be able to live in the greatest parts of your life. You can't just enjoy one of the two peaks. And the greatest peak is absolutely worth living the others for it.

[Coontang]

Sam, if you find it appropriate to use 'I told you so', that's your decision.
But you need to dare to live in the worst parts of your life to be able to live in the greatest parts of your life. You can't just enjoy one of the two peaks. And the greatest peak is absolutely worth living the others for it.

[[SoE]_Zaitsev]

I couldn't have worded that better. Nice job.

In my HUGE family (My mothers side is massive) only one family member split up, and that's from my fathers side. My aunt is now together with another guy for approx 7 years.

It's not as bad as you guys make it sound to be. Ofcourse people break up, but more people stay together than breaking up (Ofcourse, talking about marriage now).

[Drofder2004]

Sam, if you find it appropriate to use 'I told you so', that's your decision.
But you need to dare to live in the worst parts of your life to be able to live in the greatest parts of your life. You can't just enjoy one of the two peaks. And the greatest peak is absolutely worth living the others for it.

Yeh, because on top of one peak is "short term relationship" and on the other is "falling out of short term relationship". -.-

This was and always will have been simply "puppy love", most people would have been there and most people will have not been in love a week later. There is no philosophy in relationships, some work and some do not, this one didn't.